There are plenty of fishes in the world, as the idiom goes, but there’s just one out there that’s really the “catch”. If you’ve finally found someone whom you want to be in a committed relationship with but the said person had this serious breakup with you due to some reason then you can’t do anything about what happened. What you can do something about, though, is the future. In the weeks, months or years to come, you do have the choice of getting back to your ex. Even though it may not be that easy to rekindle your romantic relationship with her, as long as she’s still single, it may be possible for you two to be a couple again. Now, there are several things that you may want to do in order for you to have the affection of the woman that was once your girlfriend so that the two of you could be an item once more. To discover how to win your girlfriend back or read about some tips in fixing a broken relationship that ended in a separation, please read on.

Although it would be painful for you, you should revisit the sad memories of you and your ex-having the breakup. That’s so you could remember who broke up with who and why what occurred between you two resulted in how you two are at present. Wallowing in negative emotions would only add insult to injury and what could help in finding solutions so you may remember who’s at fault but you should prioritize what could have been done to prevent your breakup. You may not be able to undo your separation but you can certainly fix things between you two. Still, after you’ve found the answers to keep the romance between couples alive, have forgiven your girl or are ready to ask for forgiveness, you shouldn’t just text away from the woman. In fact, you should immediately make calls too. Take note that the girl may need some space to have privacy in her life and to evaluate things. Even though this is how the present situation is, you can still find ways to gradually communicate with her at least as a friend.

If you two have common friends and some of them may be concerned about your separation, you could try contacting them to find out how your ex is doing. You should man up and swallow your pride so that you could come in contact with those who may help you with what you’re concerned about. You just have to make sure that you choose individuals who are willing to listen to you or are rooting for you two to be together again. Through the said common friends, you could set up a friendly meeting with your ex. Still, you should combine this method to strategies like improving your physique and social status so that you’d be more attractive than how you were and could possibly gain the attention of your former lover.

Often we would want to win an ex-girlfriend back but it will not be easy, we will have to earn her in order to get her back. This is a little different from just getting a new girlfriend as an ex already knows your better chat up lines and witty rebuts and so you will be playing a whole new ballgame with different rules but you can still win if you really want to.

Today there are websites like www.getherbackguide.com which can advise you in this regard but they can only offer advice, it is up to you to take that advice and make it work. Your first thought will probably beg her to come back but think again as begging will make you look weak in her eyes and so if she did come back, it would probably be through a feeling of pity. Groveling, of course, will always be necessary to some degree or other but stop it short of begging for lasting results.

In order to know how to win her back, you will first have to learn the reason why she broke up with you if you do not already know. She is not likely to take you back if you still have the same fault or faults she saw in you before. Remember this though; even if you do not see it as a fault, it is what she sees it as which matters and so be humble and accept that perhaps it may be wrong on some level. Having discovered what you need to change about yourself, you will have to implement that change as just telling her you to plan to change will probably not work: show her something to convince her that the change is already underway.

Another mistake that guys often make is to remind an ex of all the good times they had together and although this may initially seem like a good plan, evidence shows that more often than not, it also reminds the girl of the bad times, reminding her why she left you. You should, therefore, concentrate on the future and speak only of the good times you could have in the future. Basically do not dwell on the past, show some initiative and look to the future and impress her with what you visualize for the two of you. Of course though, if the relationship is going to last, she may expect you to make good on at least some of those dreams and so keep them realistic, perhaps a romantic dinner or secluded picnic, nothing which you could not make happen with a little effort. The sooner she sees you are serious about the future, the sooner she is likely to take you seriously and give you a second chance. So, perhaps you should have one dream already worked out in practical terms with perhaps a date and venue for the event, something solid she catches hold of and takes you back with.